Henry played rec soccer and had a great time and was better than average. His coach commented that Henry has good field sense and knows how to run to where the ball is going to be. You can't teach that!
Life with the Ball's
The Adventures of Randy, Mel, and the Boys
Wednesday, January 7, 2026
Fall Things
Henry played rec soccer and had a great time and was better than average. His coach commented that Henry has good field sense and knows how to run to where the ball is going to be. You can't teach that!
Halloween 2026
Look at me trying to get caught up on our lives! Halloween wasn't too busy this year or maybe I've just gotten used to the chaos. We always have a big church trunk-or-treat that's at the same time as the final cross country meet. Parker willingly runs but doesn't push himself hard enough to be in the top ten and that's fine by everyone. We were happy the weather was good for all his races.
| Parker bought his own running shoes and they are lit (as the teenagers would say) |
| Luckily they only run in the sand for a small part of the race |
Halloween had to be one of the wettest on record because I brought umbrellas for Henry and his friends and they actually used them at first. The rain was dumping down! It didn't take long for the kids to decide they were tired of running from house to house and called it quits. I invited the boys over to our house to swap candy and it turned into a hot tubbing party. I love that I have so many boys swimsuits in various sizes that no one every has to plan ahead for hot tubbing at our house.
| Marcus as Hercules with his cute girlfriend Audrey. With abs like his and hair liker hers, their costumes were no surprise :) |
| Ethan and Halli looking super cute |
| Henry leaving the elevator at randy's work, preparing for a grand entrance to show off his ninja costume to our staff |
| 3 Ninjas who were soaking wet within minutes |
| Hot tubbing muscle men |
Another big event that happened in October was when I was in charge of feeding 150 missionaries lunch. My presidency and I make it look easy and are like a well-oiled machine. It's so fun and the missionaries are always so appreciative even if it's Costco lasagna.
Grandma Great
My Grandma, Ruth Spjute, also known as Grandma Great, passed away in October. She was 95 years old and I'm so glad we were able to drive to Boise to celebrate her life and be with family. She was a tiny lady with the biggest heart. When I was a kid we would often go to Boise in the summer and I have vivid memories of hearing the screen door slam behind me as I sprinted across the lawn to swim in the pool. She always had homemade cookies for us to eat. And American cheese slices. I'd eat them all day long. I remember after Randy and I broke up (we had an off year) she sent me the kindest card and told me she was thinking of me. It was so thoughtful I still remember it after all these years. Fast forward so many years later and my boys would sprint through her house and out to the pool for a quick swim on many of our pit stops in Boise as we passed through traveling to and from Utah. I loved how she loved my boys and always sent them birthday gifts. She was frugal and funny, wise and compassionate, and so so loving.
Sadly, I didn't take any pictures at the funeral! Ethan drove up from Logan and we stayed at my cousin's house, a fellow boy-mom who was happy to put up with us for less than 24 hours of pure chaos. We drove back home right after the funeral but had just enough time to do some polar bear swimming in a nearby river before putting on our Sunday clothes for the funeral.
Love you Grams!
Wednesday, December 10, 2025
The BYU Roommate Reunion 2025
Way back in December, Randy hosted his BYU roommates and their wives for a fun five-day vacation. All but two of them grew up in Arizona together and currently five of the eight still live in Arizona. This meant everyone was cold even though the weather was pretty great the entire five days. We had sunshine every day, until we packed up to leave. We spent the first day showing everyone around Seattle on a boat cruise on Lake Union. It's always fun taking people for the first time because they are always in awe of the beautiful mansions, sea planes coming and going, and the Seattle skyline. We ate seafood at Ivar's and had a great time with no injuries, no car accidents/truck explosions, or mishaps. Felt like a miracle.
After dinner at Din Tai Fung (if you know you know), we drove our three cars filled with people and beach gear, down to Seabrook. I love Seabrook! Randy rented a huge and beautiful vacation home with enough beds for everyone although some people had to share a room with bunk beds. It was beautiful and overlooked pickle ball courts and the beach. We hung out, walked to the bakery for the most delicious cinnamon rolls, worked out at the gym, explored the beach, sunk the Audi, went to the ice cream shop, ate lots of good food prepared by yours truly, and watched the BYU football game. It was heaven!
We took a million pictures but this is enough to give you an idea of the fun we had
Landon Went to Homecoming
I still can't believe Landon is doing big boy things. In my mind he's still ten years old. He asked a cute girl to homecoming and was no help whatsoever when it was time to make a poster. Randy is the artist in the family and he was working so I made the poster in record time before I had to drive some kid to some activity. It wasn't perfect but it was good enough--the story of my life.Landon has his drivers license but isn't allowed to drive other people yet so I got to be the chauffeur for this group. Landon's date was so friendly and helped carry the conversation which I thought was super impressive. After pictures and dinner, I dropped them off at the dance and then everyone went their separate ways to separate parties. I think it's weird but apparently this is normal. Whatever. I'm just glad they went.